Saturday, June 25, 2016

How I started being a happy single

That's it, I've reached a milestone. I finally feel trully happy and fullfilled while being single.

Today I smile with a new smile. I feel reborn since Thursday. :)
Instead on focusing on what I do not have, I have started focusing on what I do have.
Instead on focusing on finding someone, I focused on myself for a change, and it feels GREAT ! :)

I nourrish my heart with people and activities I love. I take care of myself. I buy myself gifts.


The sense of loss and the memory of love and life as a two-some has started to fade.

Why have I ever needed someone ?
The answer is : I do not need anyone.
I can be happy like this.
And for the moment I very much enjoy exploring myself and life as a single.

Does this mean I am closed to love now ? No it does not, it just means that it feels way less urgent.

If love comes along, I will take the leap. But only for a great love. No mediocre or iffy love is getting me off singlehood now! ;p

This feels ECTATIC ! :D